I hope it helps you to know I'm not interested in a primary/secondary kind of relationship. I want relationships that are what they are, and I guess at times I'll pay more attention to one of you than the other, but there won't be any rules that one person comes first before the other. While it does mean you won't always come first, it also means you won't always come last.
I feel we have been closer since I've been with Sean than before that, so hopefully it help you realise that you're not taking a back seat

You are very important to me.