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Old 11-22-2010, 05:26 AM
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It sounds like he is manipulating you Erin... silence and then supper? No way! It's passive aggressive if you ask me. He knows that he is confusing you and is using it against you I think... even if he doesn't, that is what is happening so don't buy into it.

Don't let him take your integrity by cheating or running off to other men... it sounds like saving money and thinking of a future without him in it is your best bet right now so that you can feel confident and have a strong feeling of self worth when and if it does go to shit entirely.

Keep strong and pleasant and plan your escape if it has come to that... pack a few things, make a list of what you will take, save some money and do things for you... not for anyone else, including cheating as a form of being rescued by another man... YOU are your best primary, treat yourself that way.
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