Originally Posted by Onysablet
Thanks for the advice.
any thoughts on a reasonable time line?
My suggestion: NOW. Take it from someone married to someone who feels like your SO. I presented my thoughts of poly BEFORE I was married and she thought I was crazy! So because of my ignorance, I did too, and the desire lied dormant because I felt It just wasn't possible. Then, 2 years later I saw a show on TLC that gave a name to my desired relationship. Now, I'm feeling like you. If you wait any longer, you'll regret it. I promise you.
Try as you might, from what you wrote, he just dosen't seem like he's gonna come around. Move on, and find what you've been missing. DON'T STOP until you have the ones you want this time.