I think I would give him one last shot; armed with information and books and be firm... "this is going to happen for me, either you are with me or not."
You are not "sick" you are quite normal. Give him some proof of that and make a statement by walking away. Either he will miss you so much he will start looking at the stuff you have brought to his attention or not; in which case it's good bye time.
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