Originally Posted by Anonymous
But is it wrong to attempt to develop a stronger relationship with this person, when in all actuality, she's probably not looking for a situation like mine? Or am I wrong in assuming what her thoughts are and should let her decide?…
I'm not even on the fence with this one. Don't put her in a position of giving more of herself to you in a intimate manner without knowing your situation. Speaking from the view of a monogamous person I would be severely hurt by this as well as feel betrayed/decieved.
Make sure you fully trust her first as you are so discreet.
Your friendship wil become what it will become.