Grrr! The whole losing weight thing really chaps my ass! He wants you to exercise and get down one dress size, then he'll deign to fuck you and knock you up? What's he gonna think when you're pregnant with swollen breasts, swollen ankles and huge belly? What's he gonna be like when you're post partum, leaking milk, with stretch marks here and there, and loose skin on your belly?
At least my ex liked my body no matter what size I was. In fact he used to praise me for giving him 2 women, the slender small breasted maiden figure I had for the first 10 yrs, and the full breasted, full bellied goddess figure I developed after kids came along.
Run! Get out while you can!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 41, M
Old Friend, gender fluid
Nick, 35, M (occasional lover)
Hippie, 25 (?)
Dark Wing, 45 (?)