Originally Posted by redpepper
Another note; don't buy into the "if I lose weight he will love me" bullshit. Women are fed such crocks of shit. My partners love me regardless and I stay healthy for me.
Two words come to mind after reading your posts (not redpepper's, the OP's):
Originally Posted by Magdlyn
The weight comment is also a really low blow. Going from a size 10 to a 12 is what? A 10 lb weight gain? For goodness' sakes. What a douchenozzle.
I was a size 12 when I met my husband and I'm a 16-18 now. My husband is still attracted to me and I don't FEEL fat, either. Yes I would like it if 50 pounds just went away, but I don't worry about my body-image.
If he thinks you're fat now, what will he think if you "try for a child" and gain a lot of weight from that?