Thread: Dear Abby
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Old 11-20-2010, 06:11 AM
booklady78 booklady78 is offline
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DEAR ABBY: For the past few holidays we have had to accept the fact that my sister-in-law was bringing her husband and her boyfriend to family holiday dinners. Last year we protested, saying it was ridiculous and that we wouldn't come. (We don't want our kids thinking this is appropriate.) We relented when my mother-in-law said we were being unreasonable because the husband and boyfriend are OK with the situation.

We have ended up going in the past, but Thanksgiving is nearly here again and we're not "thankful" for this arrangement. How do you think we should handle this? -- RELATIVELY ODD IN JACKSONVILLE

DEAR RELATIVELY ODD: If your children are small, they will accept the "odd" man at the table as simply a good friend of their aunt and uncle, so I see no reason why you shouldn't join the family unless you personally dislike the man. However, if your children are old enough to understand that there is something romantic going on, make other plans for the holidays. To do otherwise would make it appear that you approve of what's going on, which you do not.

Dated for today, Nov.19/10

Her response to a writer who was uncomfortable attending family functions when a poly family was in attendance is irritating.

She basically encouraged them to not attend family functions to show their "disapproval".

Nice lesson in tolerance there Abby...

Last edited by booklady78; 11-20-2010 at 06:12 AM. Reason: added article
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