I had similar reactions when Mono and I got together. I chose to let time show what it will and it did. I chose to be confident in my decisions and not play in to their fear (shown as judgement and assumptions). I'm glad I did as now they are just as confident as I am and I can tell that they have given up waiting for the other shoe to drop. I forgave them as we went along as I knew they were just na´ve. I'm glad I did as I have given little energy to them at all. This meant I could give more to my relationship dynamic instead.
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