J and I are going to Dixie Cafe with his family at some undisclosed time. R has expressed a desire to meet my siblings (my parents are deceased) and so we will be going together for the first time to my baby sister's to eat with my family. After which R will go eat dinner with his family. J and I will likely hang out a bit at my sis's it is rare that we are all together these days so every chance we get is welcome. Busy but fun.