Ray I think you are incredibly perceptive about relationships considering you are so young and have never been in one. Certainly what your intuition is telling you makes a lot of sense. You may have hit the nail on the head about them as a couple not being ready.
I said it before, you seem a very together person. I admire you. I don't say that about many young people. Compared to you I am almost dead (49)
"The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times but to get up eight times"