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Old 11-18-2010, 04:09 PM
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Yul, I am sorry you are hurting and frustrated. Hang in there. We had two epic fails before we got where we are now. We did lots of research, kept our current relationship stable by being loving and communicative and at some point we were healed enough to try again with someone new. There is never really a moment where we arrive and things are suddenly without challenge we just get more adept at coping, resolution, and forward motion. You guys will find the right path for you. We handle it like improv jazz. We have confidence in our own ability, stay flexible,work as a team, watch for the changes and above all enjoy the experience. Acceptance often comes with repeated reassurance as we are exposed to varying forms of the same stimulus. Just don't give up.
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