Originally Posted by redpepper
Slow down maybe, get to know each other, let the horniness build. That can be really fun! Set a date a month from now to try again or something; that and add lots of dates in between of a non-sexual nature. I sometimes think a little holding back is a good idea
What she said... and to paraphrase - maybe it was just too soon?
Saturday to today = 4 days. Not a very long time at all.