Originally Posted by verydogmother
She: feels like I am invading? But it is a great opp for me at this point in my life.
Why the question mark? Reverse the situation. Of course she would feel very uncomfortable with this. Is there no other place to move, this just sounds very convenint from an outside perspective..NRE makes us see things differently and have an often total lack of empathy for the emotions of others.
I feel for your situation and hope everything works out.