Originally Posted by Passport
I find that when I'm looking the hardest, that's when it seems that I can't find what I'm looking for.
I live in a small town - the nearest "major" center to me is at least an hour away.... so I get it. Bi, married, with kids and not willing to "out" myself to my acquanintences.... ugh.
So I understand. And keep my bar high - because the few times I've lowered it, its been uncomfortable at best and horrific in its worst.
You're not the only one. Check out OK Cupid.
thank you Passport. I failed to mention that being out at least to "some" is important as well. and your right, if I lowered my bar, i wouldnt be satisfied because my standards are my needs. if they aren't met, im not satisfied. thank you for your response, as well. It's nice to hear the comforting voice of people who understand!