Originally Posted by Passport
All things being equal - if you're having problems, your brain is overriding the body in this situation - something's not right.
I find I can't orgasm if everything isn't right - my mental state has to be there.
I'm not male - but I would think that it's along the same lines...
I would agree to this. My last girlfriend was the same way. She couldn't orgasm if she was at all uncomfortable.