Originally Posted by SvartSvensk
Well... there's another element to the equation, of a geometrical variety.
Well, there is something to say in that...
I know where you are coming from.
When I have been in similar situations, and the boundary between flirting and sex is broken, I sometimes have looked at the person and felt that sense of "oh my this isn't what my mind was saying about the situation."
There is a cross over sometimes that occurs and my body doesn't follow sometimes, especially as it also does a check in and often it considers the situation not as great as my head does. Most of the time it says,,, ya, noooo... but I plug away and find myself shut off or not reacting..