I am very accustomed to being in a relationship with a man however this isn't my first time in a relationship with woman.
So I think I look for some of those same "manly" qualities in our GF now. I realized that thinking that isn't really getting me what I want yet I haven't figured out how to do that when our GF is really passive. I think we have the ability to be aggressive I just think we don't want to do it all the time and men are aggressive. Yet she had been in a longer relationship with a woman before, I have defiantly looked to her and tried to follow her examples of doing what she does for me to her but it hasn't worked that well. However we have made some things work this far but I know that with more communication things would be better.