Originally Posted by Tonberry
Well, neither of my partner has another partner right now, but I guess if my partner couldn't reach an orgasm when I give him oral sex, but could when his other partner does, I'd probably feel bad and inadequate about it.
On the other hand, I wouldn't see it as a reason not to allow them to have other partners.
See, myself - I'd ask my partner what I could do or do differently to help him come when I blow him. I wouldn't waste valuable energy feeling bad and inadequate about it.
However, my blowjobs usually don't result in orgasm anyway because we usually get around to fucking before it reaches that point, but I don't want to hijack the thread so I'll just leave it at that.