the guy is looking for a girlfriend. it turns him on for his girlfriend (he's divorced & isn't seeing anyone) to have other lovers. i have a date with him.
i also have a date with a different man, who is younger. guy #1 wd like a relatioship where his girlfriend has another lover or two, preferably one younger.
so, i may be too optimistic here, but if both dates can turn into friendship and more...then yay.
also, if my couple (my bf & his wife) can agree on if she will be "allowed" to have a sexual encounter or ongoing relationship w/ another male, then mb one of these two guys can lead to something for her.
sorry, confusing first time.