Originally Posted by Jodi
she voices it to me mono.
Thanks for clarifying. Then they have some work to do. She needs to assert herself if it is worth it to her and he needs to apply the same level of trust and consideration to her that she gives him. I don't know how anyone can rationalize thier ability to do something but it not be acceptable for thier partner. This is a a very possessive traight in that it not only denies the same treatment for all, but it is a clearly recognized and accepted imbalance.