she voices it to me mono. i don't think she pushes issue w/ him. i think she was waiting to see if he came around. she and i talk about it.
he hasn't said if he wants me or not to have another boyfriend. but, he knows that i am dating and will have another lover down the line. he's scared of diesease, but i told him i'd use condom. we don't, bcz he's only w/ his wife & had vasectomy.
he has no choice really about me, i'm free to do what i want. i don't know, mb i wd try monogomy w/ him, but i don't really want to. but, i wouldn't totally discourage him from asking or me trying. tnx for ur help.