Thanks geminigirl. I like the quote, so true, and the link. Will read later.
I'm not going anywhere, just adjusting

I think I've been around enough that I can back away from things that aren't working more and concentrate on things that might. Give it a try anyway. Its a matter of how and figuring out the difference between friends and community members. I feel a thread coming on
Thanks for your support, I offer you the same whenever you need it