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Old 11-14-2010, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted by GroundedSpirit View Post
I guess that would be a fair description of both my primary mate & I.
We've had long stretches where it was just the two of us and loved every....well most...minute of it.

But again, I think you need to get clear on the difference between philosophy and action.

You ARE poly if you sincerely BELIEVE in it, from a well analyzed position. Not from some sexual fantasy level.
Or you don't.

Whether you are in a position to ACT on it or not is something entirely different. Very much driven by circumstances - some which we at times seem to have little control over.

But the fact that you can't act at a given moment doesn't change what you hold true in your heart.

Not sure if that helps any confusion you may have ?

Thank you! This states my feelings on it wonderfully!. I've been struggling with this particular definition for the better part of five years because I couldn't find the words to express how I thought & felt!
There are as many ways to do polyamory as there are people practicing it!
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