I just went through a break-up and am O.K.
I just went through a break-up as a secondary but didn't take it personally because it had nothing to do with anything being wrong between me and him. The problem was his gf was starting to freak out about him having sex with me and threatened to walk. We talked about it over the phone and both felt it was the best thing to do. Yet, it still hurts and is a loss. I feel angry and depressed too. But Overall, while I need some grieving time where I am not dating, I feel pretty good all things considered. Also, I feel a sense of relief to be out of a situation where one of the parties was really hurting because of me. Meanwhile, they are going to couples therapy. My bf and I left it that we would stay in touch rather than break ties completely. We have a very long history together and don't want to throw it all away.