Perhaps you should see what she does for fun somehow... then show up... ? that's a tough one. I guess just keeping at it and talking more and more each time. That is what I have been known to do. That way the relationship develops slowly and without it being obvious that I am interested before I know what kind of person they are.
I think I would keep looking around though as this might not work out... not put all my eggs in one basket so to speak.
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