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Old 11-13-2010, 05:23 PM
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Is it possible to be in a poly type relationship and not also be considered open? I know these are just words but I feel as if in order to find good partners I have to be more "open" then "poly"
I'm trying to understand your direction in this Girlcaleb so please be patient with my wondering thoughts. I am getting the feeling you would like more autonomy in exploring relationships. That you would like to be able to pursue interests more "privately" to see if they are worth putting the effort into bringing them forth to your boyfriend.

Some people view open relationships as being much more free to have random encounters when they arise and may not even include disclosure to your other partner(s).

Has some of the excitement been taken away from meeting this guy because of the communication with your boyfriend?
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