Have you told him that? If not, maybe you should let him read what you wrote. I can also see where you would give him a lot of leeway to keep things where they are. Just don't stay in something where you're not happy. Like I said earlier, they both have to take your feelings and emotions into consideration. And if they're unwilling or unable to move forward with this relationship, then they have to at least be able to tell you that so you can decide for yourself if you want to stick it out or move on.
Live life to the fullest 'cause you never know if you're gonna wake up tomorrow!