Originally Posted by FlameKat
All very sensible, except for the driving need inside me to know myself. I want the answers to those questions myself. I want to know where I stand with myself, and what sort of future I am looking at.
Well, in my experience it takes a lot of reading, writing, bouncing it all off people, asking questions, banging my head against a wall, patience, time and allowing it all to manifest... just like any other issue that I struggle with really.
At least you have some resources at your disposal. You aren't alone in this and there are many that have gone before... keep at it... you'll get somewhere for sure.