Sometimes I feel like maybe I want more, but the desire for more that typically comes up the most is wanting to be further into the relationship than I am. We've only been dating the month or so like Company said, and sometimes I wish it was further down the road. I wish we had the feeling of a six-month relationship or something like that, where everyone was comfortable for the most part and things weren't so shaky. Of course, this is a desire I can't really have until that amount of time actually goes by, but it doesn't stop me from wanting it.
I'm wondering if you could try compromising with him? I know that some partners aren't cool with doing things one way and it can sometimes clash with the other partner, but maybe you could find a way to get your validation and he can still be comfortable, too.
"Love as thou wilt."
Company is my husband. I'm dating Selene, Ariel, Vegeta, Thunder, and Andulvar.