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Old 11-10-2010, 08:09 PM
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I have the same thing going on over here, except I've been with my boyfriend for four years now. It even feels weird calling him "boyfriend" because I don't know that he even considers himself that. I told him I loved him recently and I can't get him to validate the feelings back in words, but his actions show it. I'm trying to be ok with that, but it's very hard and I'm having a very hard time with it. I sometimes feel like I'm an idiot for putting in so much effort to make this relationship happy and wonderful for him, where he just tends to put in effort when it's convenient for him and it's not very convenient that often. Just like now he hasn't gotten in touch with me for 6 days and I'm going nuts over here waiting for him, while I'm sure he's hardly even thought about me. i can't figure it out. It sucks. I won't lie.
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