A "good" relationship to me is one that is based on honesty and trust. After 12 years of being with my wife there is NOTHING that we keep from each other. Her best friend came up a couple of weeks ago and when they were alone asked my wife if there was anything she needed to complain about in regards to me. My wife shook her head and said, nope. "Anything I need to bitch about, I bitch at him about." I wouldn't have it any other way.
The same rules apply to our relationship with our wife. We know each others dirty lil secrets and trust each other implicitly. Three years later all is well and I can't imagine life any other way.
Live life to the fullest 'cause you never know if you're gonna wake up tomorrow!