What attachment do you have to her talking to him about what he sees in you? This seems like another concern no? I just would hate to see you get stuck in a cat and mouse chase around making sure she likes you and doing stuff for them that you think will make her like you or show them you are something you aren't.
Everything you feel and perseverate on is completely valid and rational. I am wondering if there is more to this as I know how much you push yourself for other peoples comfort. Sometimes it seems beyond your own comfort.
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