@tonberry, take it from someone who pushes buttons
you gave her a gift and she didn't want it... right now. You made her think differently and that is a gift in my books. Often people don't want to rock their world of denial that there is anything going on outside of their own world, but there is and it's exciting and interesting and worth understanding in order to understand ourselves better... that is always worth pointing out to me.
please don't beat yourself up or think anything of it. We have had many people leave here in a huff and it really is an indication that it is their loss or this is just not the right place for them... end of story, close the book, move on...
we love you here, so.... there ya go