Originally Posted by Mohegan
Thanks Mono and RP for sharing the good and the bad. .
When I first moved in I was so hypervigilant about not seeming to be always in PN's space (as in upstairs) I actually spent less time with the family as a whole.
Today I came home, went upstairs to chat with everyone and do some small chores with PN before heading down to make my supper and start my evening.
I found this really brings out the sense of family and makes me feel even better about this move. I believe PN didn't feel encroached on and working as a team on things is part of the befit to living together but not together
Lesson learned....touch base daily if I can. I'm family, not a visitor: family expects to see each other daily