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Old 11-08-2010, 07:55 PM
Fidelia Fidelia is offline
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"Don't stick your dick in crazy." That is deep wisdom, BrotherMan, a pearl of great price.

Seriously, though, I'm glad you lived to tell the tale. Sounds like you gained some valuable lessons; sorry you had to enroll in the School of Hard Knocks to get them.

From your description, your ex-gf does indeed sound to me like she was abused, my guess is sexually, and probably as a child. The symptoms match the behavior you describe. She really is more to be pitied than censured. I hope she gets the help she needs to heal and become a whole and healthy person. I hope that as her friend you will point her in that direction. Ultimately, though, it's a process she will have to choose and make happen for herself.

I wish her good luck and godspeed on her journey to health and happiness.

To you I wish better luck next time.

Pretty clever having your wife leave that VM to cover your exit. I would've just had Fidelio come pick me up, but hey, whatever works.
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