hello Redpepper.....I've lived in two triads and for me time limits was something we decided between what the other two needed. One of us didn't need as much time as the other and that helped. You have to create what works for everyone in the family. All of these things like in good monogamous relationships has to be developed with the others in the family over time. In my opinion if a poly relationship is developed with sex first you've got trouble and won't last long. poly relationships she take in every aspect of a relationship. As the saying goes once the sex is over you should be able to talk and do other things.
Last edited by Silver; 11-07-2010 at 09:15 PM.