Hi Nightwalker and welcome
No specific word I'm afraid, gratitude has to suffice.
I hope when you say "my partner doesn't want to spend time with me" that is just how you feel and is not the actual truth of the matter. Polyamory is about adding love into your lives not about finding an alternate source and using your partner as a babysit.
Please be very careful and aware of your situation. You haven't said whether you also are poly?
I know babysitters can be expensive but even if you have a reciprocal babysitting arrangement you still you to make quality alone time with your partner a priority. I can't stress how important this is
Last edited by sage; 11-06-2010 at 10:06 PM.