We talked about both. But for now, we are going to start over and take things slower. Since my husband and I are so new, we should have taken baby steps into things and not rush it. But we got excited. Our girlfriend is HOT! hahaha
For now we are going to relax. But we will re-visit the play together rule in the future. The things you guys have said here make sense to me about reevaluating that.