I really truly thank all of you from the bottom of my heart for these responses. They saved me. And I'm being serious. Where I felt cheated on before and was devastated and felt so sad ... reading these replies has really changed my perspective on things. You guys have truly saved me.
I no longer feel cheated on at all. I'm not even sad anymore. I think this was a learning experience to say the least.
And last night we Three sat down and talked about what happened and where we want to go from here. It went well, and before too long we were all snuggly again.
The weekly meeting to check in with each other is a FANTASTIC idea that we are going to implement right away. We are going to be okay.
Thank you so so so very much!!!