I can get behind RP on this one...no reason to dwell....reevaluate things and come up with new bounderies. Ask yourself if realisticly you could complay with some of these rules? What happens in the heat of the moment...Pause...lets pick this up when ..... gets back...that can feel somewhat unnatural. What has worked for us is nothing can happen one on one that has not happened in our triad...
Sending you positive energy