If her hesitancy is stemming from nerves, then a quick meet would be best.
If she's hesitant for the reasons you've mentioned, well you already know where you'd like that to go.
I'm a pansexual female, married to and living with Indigo
(straight male), in a relationship with and living with Mr. A (straight, mono male).
One day I might stop "practicing" polyamory and just start living it!
Here Be Dragons
Originally Posted by AutumnalTone
Nobody gets a toaster oven for recruiting monos.