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Old 11-05-2010, 12:13 PM
Seekinganswer Seekinganswer is offline
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Hey minibeast, openness, openness and then some. Be yourselves and all will be well. If it was meant to be it will be. I asked S to meet his D 3 weeks after I discovered their affair. I knew her before this so it wasnt a first time meeting but after I realised how much S felt for D and wanted her to share our life, I agreed that we propose poly to her. We were both very nervous and took a few deep breathes before we made the call.For D, it was unexpected but she was open to it. S was able to explain how he felt and what he hoped for us all. It marked the beginning of our journey.. Regardless how our story ends, I dont regret making the step to contact D. I would never have been at peace without having tried knowing how S felt.We are taking tentative steps. Good luck with the meeting
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