I get insecure when I need to cope and can't seem to muster that up. I try to accept as a way to cope, but sometimes have to revert to blocking stuff out.
I have insecurities about people not telling me what is going on... especially if I have invested in them.
I get insecure about things I can't control. With Ari on that one. I am pretty dominant and if I am not in control of myself and the situation I am in I shut down, leave, or become mute.
I love rules, boundaries, protocol, procedure, and if there isn't any then I seek it out as I feel insecure. Luckily this is a pretty minor one.