Originally Posted by redpepper
@Ceil- what about time? How long it lasts and how often you see them?
How long? As long as possible, please. I tend to be in it for the long haul, but if it's not to be, then I still can see a relationship as "GOOD" if it ends relatively quickly.
How often I see them - I am much more into being a part of their lives and they in mine, so I want almost daily contact on the phone or similar.
I had a relationship where I saw my SO once a month for a whole weekend, and that was too long an interval between for me. My current relationship we see each other for a "date" once a week, sometimes more often, and that works well for me.
So minimum of "how often" would be somewhere between the two, I would guess...