My story is simple.
I was married for 17 years, 15 good ones, lost connection, fucked up horrendously, ended the life and social environment I knew for 37 years.
Met Redpepper, was allowed to share in her love because she is polyamorous, love her family and we are building something healthy and exciting.
I'm not poly, love being monogamously wired, don’t even understand how poly minds work but worked like hell to become normalized in our V, struggling with the new social environment I am in but am winning.
Poly means nothing to me other than it is a part of my relationship with Redpepper.
Happy as I could ever imagine, moving forward, completely in love with Redpepper
Still here and looking forward to our first Xmas together!!