Welcome to the forum! *waves at you from Syracuse*
There are kink folk who don't do poly, poly folk that don't do kink, and people that do both. I think there is plenty of room in the world for all to find their place.
So I hope you find good folk to chat with here - there are some great people.
Please check out The Birdcage - an open, friendly Polyamory forum for all parts of New York State
"Listen, or your tongue will make you deaf." - Native American Proverb