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Old 11-02-2010, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Ariakas View Post

Do you like that being done to you and your friends in regards to poly?

Anyways, thats my 2cents. There are dicks in every lifestyle, its not the lifestyles fault.
I don't like it but I accept that it may make them not want to socialize with us/them. I understand the motivation behind avoiding us/them I guess. I don't hold it against them for judging.

This is not about any individuals I know. Every person I know who swings is nice and I don't even think about it for the most part. This is more about social events that are not even "official" swinger events, the atmosphere and expectations I think. There's nothing wrong with it at's just not the environment I can see any reason for me to put myself in. I would consider doing it for other people but it would not be for me specifically. It could be a house party, evening get-together, or whatever. I'd rather hang with my tried and true poly peeps or friends from my old neighborhood.

If I was motivated by a need to meet new people I might push myself in this area. That's not me though.

Thanks for your comments Ari..made me do some more thinking

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