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Old 11-01-2010, 05:55 PM
polytriad polytriad is offline
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I apologize for not clarifying. it wasnt that she didnt want Nikki and I to get it on...she wanted to reach a level of connection with Nikki that was similular to mine. We are all together now. My wife is very open when her comfort level with Me and Nikki's interactions and Nikki and I are content with moving at the pace of the slowest common denominator we are all on equal ground as far as what is and isn’t ok...So when I said we are passed things I mean the hang ups we were dealing with before. My wife has accepted poly as apart of her and something she can enjoy and understands more so now how its possible to love two people without it taking away anyone. She is in a tender state now and I want to be supportive as does Nikki but its difficult when she behaves in such a manor that drives us away.
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