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Old 08-19-2009, 10:25 PM
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i'm not sure he's as into the idea as i am, but our communication has been fantastic.
First, Wecome to the forum!

Second, you'd better find out just how "into the idea" he is.

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... and I don't want them to meet each other....
I'd call that a "red flag".

red flag - "2. to provoke the attention of; alert; arouse: The animal's refusal to eat red-flagged the keeper that something was wrong."
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/red-flag

If you don't want them to meet each other, that suggests to me that there is probably a fear or insecurity involved that you need to examine in yourself prior to taking any steps forward into polyamory. Please identify that fear or insecurity and report back.
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